Sun – Lilith Trine – Shine Always, Shine Everywhere

The Black Moon, or Lilith, distorts the lunar nature of feelings and prompts the person to seek new experiences that are absent from the treasury of their current life, but were present in the baggage of past incarnations, as well as in the experience of their ancestors. The Sun is the true essence, the core of personality, unchanging and purposeful. This inner axis may be hidden beneath a heap of fears and complexes, but if it is cleared, it points like a compass needle to the character traits that lead to success.

The trine with Lilith helps bring it out and follow the path of an extroverted, active leader. The trigger here may be envy, the desire to catch up with and surpass one’s role models, the confidence that “they can do the same and even better,” and the temptation of fame, money, and self-realization, where the native can be first.

Strengths and Problems of the Sun – Lilith Trine

It is commonly believed that a trine is a favorable aspect, but things are not so simple when the Black Moon comes into play. The energy of the trine gives ease in fulfilling desires: everything is handed to the person on a silver platter as soon as they truly want it. Given the solar influence, the native is indeed a born star. If they are also lucky enough to have strong Mars and Venus, this person knows what they want and moves steadily toward the goal. Positive traits of the Sun – Lilith trine include:

• unshakable confidence that they were born for a better life, and the desire to create it;
• the radiance of solar light through the aura, and animal magnetism for the opposite sex;
• optimism, carefreeness, and the understanding that everything will somehow fall into place in the right way;
• excellent immunity and the ability to survive in the most difficult conditions;
• a strong creative impulse and the desire to be a leader.

Outwardly, the person gives the impression of being self-confident and brave, but few people know that bold actions connected with self-promotion and personal growth are driven by a deep desire to assert themselves at any cost. This comes from a lack of inner support. By expressing the ego and declaring the right to a better life and a stellar future, the native seeks to gain confidence, accept themselves, and love themselves. This experience was absent from their ancestral treasury.

The ancestors of the native with the Lilith – Sun trine may have been brilliant, vivid, creative personalities, famous or simply talented, but they did not know how to accept themselves fully and strove to prove their worth and competence to someone, most often to the father.

This succeeded on the external level, but the fear of rejection and self-doubt remained. Thanks to the positive energy of the trine, however, they became a trigger that pushes forward rather than pulls back.

Men and women with the Lilith – Sun trine do not know a sense of measure when it comes to attracting attention to themselves. They are ready to do anything, even resort to provocations, shocking actions, and violations of social norms, just so people talk about them. Most often, however, their courage is admired rather than condemned.

The problem of the Lilith – Sun trine is that the person does not resist the temptation of vanity and may justify any actions, which, of course, is characteristic only of a low level of development.

The Sun – Lilith Trine and Relationships

Despite the favorable energy of the aspect, it does not guarantee constant ease in love. Such a person needs constant attention from the opposite sex. If this is present, the native blossoms, shines, and becomes full of strength and energy to act.

This is felt especially strongly if the lunar nodes in the chart are located on the First – Seventh House axis, or if the Sun is in one of these Houses. When the person is lonely, suppresses their sexuality and creative impulse, insecurity overwhelms them completely, and there is no full manifestation of their power.

Women with the Sun – Lilith trine acutely need support from the father and admiration from the husband. If the latter ignores this need, they may seek the missing emotions through provoking jealousy or through affairs on the side.

A similar situation develops in the life of a man with the Sun – Lilith trine. He needs unconditional acceptance of his actions and admiration from his wife; otherwise, he may also have affairs in order to assert himself. Such men like to take care of themselves, dress beautifully, and lead a healthy lifestyle.

Representatives of both sexes benefit from public activity that involves new acquaintances and communication with many people, because loneliness is destructive for them.

How to Work Through the Sun – Lilith Trine

It is very important for the native to accept their uniqueness. This is the key to success. The point is that their talents and ways of expressing them differ greatly from generally accepted standards, and it takes a certain courage to present themselves exactly as they wish. But if the person finally dares to do this, casting aside fears and insecurity, then success comes easily, and a dependence may appear on the pleasure of seeing surprised faces around them and even the shock of the public.

At this stage, it is important not to go too far and to preserve a sense of measure, so as not to cross the boundaries of decency. Lilith should give only a taste of forbidden fruit, a hint of spice, not scorching lava that sweeps away everything in its path. This is why the trine with the Sun cannot be called easy. Nevertheless, it gives acquaintances with the right people, bright charisma, creative talents, and the ability to attract attention. The main thing is to overcome infantilism and insecurity, develop a sense of taste and measure, and approve of oneself from within.

The best talisman for activating the Sun – Lilith trine is heliodor.  ✓