Mars – Lilith Square – Aggression Is the Mother of Order

The tension created by the malefic red planet and the Black Moon is difficult to ignore. It is a blinding wave of aggression that rises within the person, completely drowning out the voice of reason, or a terrible sense of shame in “good girls and boys” who were never taught how to release these emotions in a healthy way. Yet feelings do not disappear simply because they are suppressed.

Such people are feared because of the tendency toward violence embedded in the subconscious. However, the square does not operate constantly, but only under certain circumstances. The native may be peaceful and calm, but a single trigger can turn them into a criminal or a hero, because this aspect also gives reckless courage that switches off the instinct of self-preservation.

Dangers of the Mars – Lilith Square

The native’s life is rarely calm. Of course, if Mars is harmonious and the chart contains many trines, then scenes of violence arise only in the native’s imagination. For example, Lilith in Pisces often releases aggression by vividly imagining tearing enemies to pieces, but Mars in Sagittarius supports ideas of nobility and non-harm to the physical body, so it would take a great deal of effort to push such a person into a serious fight.

The Mars – Lilith square strongly strikes at deep self-esteem, at the very ego that is already embedded within the person, rather than formed by external evaluation. The native constantly carries an inner need to prove their strength, significance, and right to something important to them, even when no one is competing with them. If competitors do appear, the person simply loses their head and, depending on the position of Mars, attacks left and right through impulsive actions and behavior, or suffers from auto-aggression when the red planet is in Pisces, Libra, Taurus, or Virgo. It is very difficult to seem good when the desire to destroy opponents is tearing the person apart from within, and coping with this is incredibly hard.

It is impossible to categorically label all natives with the Mars – Lilith square as criminals, but among them there truly are maniacs who are unable to suppress surges of aggression or who calculatingly plan evil deeds. However, this requires additional aspects with Pluto and the personal planets. Most people with this aspect:

• are prone to frequent mood swings under the influence of circumstances and during the returns of the karmic nodes and Lilith;
• suffer from surges of anger and aggression when something happens that does not match their picture of the world in the themes of the Houses where the Black Moon and Mars are placed;
• fall ill when emotions are suppressed, and over time may develop chronic diseases of the heart, kidneys, gallbladder, and liver;
• have an increased libido and become aggressive in the absence of sex;
• are inclined to make hasty decisions under the influence of the first impulses of desire or anger.

Sometimes such people experience a terrible feeling of helplessness and dependence on others, although this is purely their fantasy. Yet it is precisely these emotions that make them quit jobs, divorce, and move to other cities without serious grounds.

The Mars – Lilith Square and Relationships

Chart holders immediately attract attention. One can feel in them the energy of passion and a certain animal magnetism, but this is where the main catch lies. The aspect also provokes strong aggression from the opposite sex.

Women suffer especially from this. Most girls with the Lilith – Mars square have spoken about attempted harassment, stalking, and encounters with exhibitionists in dark parks. This does not always end in rape, which requires a combination of many factors, including Mars afflicted by Pluto. Nevertheless, with this aspect it is necessary to be cautious and not provoke unstable men with revealing clothing, visits to disreputable places, or returning home alone late at night.

In addition, a woman with the Mars – Lilith square is herself capable of driving even the calmest partner to the edge through nitpicking, quarrels, provocation of jealousy, and insults, even if under different circumstances he would never have hit anyone.

When Lilith is in Aries, Pisces, or Cancer, there is also a habit of subconsciously attracting specific abusers.

Men with the Mars – Lilith square feel inner aggression toward women because of their nature. They may speak with contempt about beautiful, sexual women, and miniskirts or bright makeup irritate them. They divide all women into those they desire, with whom they have only stormy sex, and those they consider worthy but who do not attract them physically. From this comes strong irritation and inner conflict, as well as the need to subdue and disarm. Such husbands are potential dictators.

How to Work Through the Mars – Lilith Square

Natives with this aspect need to avoid four states: anger, hunger, fear, and unsatisfied physical desire. This is also important for those who are in a relationship with such a person.

These are precisely the triggers that activate inner aggression and attract violent people or simply malicious individuals. Increased adrenaline works like the trigger of a gun. The native may be attacked not only by dogs, but may also be treated rudely in a line or harshly refused in an important request.

An inner sense of guilt also has a very destructive influence on the development of events and likewise triggers an adrenaline surge.

Natives with the Mars – Lilith aspect need sports with fairly intense exertion and fast action: boxing, tennis, basketball, hockey, football, and anything that helps release tension. Latin American and Eastern dances are also excellent choices. It is important to acknowledge one’s wild nature and express it within boundaries allowed by society.

Excellent talisman stones for the Mars – Lilith square are ruby and pink spinel.  ✓