Aspects of Venus and Mars

Venus – Mars Conjunction

The native is very amorous and romantic, and at times it is rather difficult for them to control their passion. They attract the opposite sex like a magnet, regardless of whether others consider them beautiful and attractive or not, although they may indeed be truly attractive. They are simply fun, and it is pleasant to be around them, which is why they attract so much attention. When they develop sympathy for someone, they tend to pursue that person with all their characteristic passion. Of course, sometimes they act too assertively, and this can create difficulties. They have a strong drive toward love and beauty; creative activity, whether art, music, sculpture, or poetry, will help them satisfy this inner thirst. The more energy they direct into realizing their creative potential, the fewer problems they will have controlling their hormones.

This aspect gives the native a certain charisma, allowing them to naturally attract and gather people around them. They enjoy communicating and constantly being in the company of others; this is probably what makes them truly happy. In fact, it is quite difficult for them to be alone. They have a strong need to give and receive love from others. They should simply be careful when choosing the object of their adoration, because not everyone feels the same way they do. Sometimes it is difficult for them to take any relationship lightly, and this creates the need to realize who should truly have their heart. This aspect can sometimes be difficult, as it tends to generate “love-hate” relationships, bringing both hostile feelings and feelings of love at the same time. They should direct their energy into creative endeavors.

Venus in Harmony with Mars

The native is romantic and openly expresses affection, appreciation, and love toward the opposite sex, although they may do this rarely and somewhat awkwardly. They attract the opposite sex like a magnet, regardless of whether others consider them beautiful and attractive or not, although they may indeed be truly attractive. They are simply cheerful and pleasant to be around, and that is exactly why they attract so much attention. They have sexual appeal, and their light, emotional nature cannot leave others indifferent. They love bringing people together, and if it were up to them, they would pair up the whole world into couples who would live happily ever after.

The native has a strong drive toward love and beauty; creative activity, whether art, music, sculpture, or poetry, will help them satisfy this inner thirst.

This aspect gives a certain charisma, allowing the native to naturally attract and gather people around them. They enjoy communicating and constantly being in the company of other people; this is probably what makes them truly happy. They have a strong need to give and receive love from others.

They are open and warm toward others. They have a lively and vivid character, and others find this very attractive. In love, they find satisfaction and harmony because they know what they want, what they need, and can fully express their desires honestly and openly. They have no hidden motives. They are not a conflict-prone person and love peace and calm. They put a great deal of energy into their emotions.

Inharmonious Aspects of Venus with Mars

Among the various possible tendencies, one especially pronounced tendency may be the native’s inability to satisfy their own desires first while also taking other people’s needs into account, and this causes anger and frustration. They suppress their own desires in order to maintain peaceful relationships, which creates inner conflict. Sex and love may become sources of problems, ruling over them and drawing them into “love-hate” relationships. Their high libido may lead to the waste of creative power through sexual excesses and pleasures. Perhaps they can easily fall in love with someone who pays them no attention whatsoever.

The native is strongly amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, yet they are not inclined toward simple, friendly, platonic relationships. Constant tension is present in their personal life, because very often they take their own desires and needs into account first rather than those of their partner, and they become impatient when it comes to satisfying their own needs. They are capable of being both hot and passionate and rather cold-blooded in relationships. It often happens that when their partner is active, they are not in the mood, but when they are ready for action, their partner’s strength has declined.

Most often, the native finds themselves releasing their “hatred” through verbal or physical battles in disagreements with their partner, and after their hostility comes out, they again feel “love” toward that person. Of course, while their emotions are returning to normal, their partner is still trying to understand what has just happened. Then the native is ready to continue the relationship, but the partner is no longer ready, and the native cannot understand why.

They cannot ignore the fact that they do not understand the other person’s problems; this can become a cause of upset and disappointment. If they are not in a love relationship, they want one to appear, and if they are in one, they do not want to be in it. Their emotions are unstable, and it is difficult for them to struggle with them. They are indecisive, and their values and standards of behavior change from case to case. They need to learn to compromise with others so that anger does not take over if something does not go according to their plan. Letting off steam is normal, and perhaps they should buy a punching bag to spar with from time to time when they are upset, but they must not use other people, especially loved ones and those close to them, as a punching bag in verbal battles. In addition, they must overcome their excessive feelings of love and hatred toward the people they care about.  ✓

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