Aspects of Venus and Neptune

Venus – Neptune Conjunction

The native tends to be what is called a hopeless romantic. They are very idealistic about love and romance, and in most cases, when they think they are in love, they are simply in love with love itself rather than with a specific person. They tend to place their beloved on a pedestal, and this can become a source of problems: sooner or later, the beloved will do something the native did not expect, causing enormous disappointment and breaking their heart. They need to stop looking at the world through rose-colored glasses and see things as they truly are.

Another facet of this aspect is that the native has already created an image of the ideal partner in their imagination, one far removed from a real person. They may spend their whole life searching for Mr. or Mrs. Perfect, while missing their true soulmate. They need to come down to earth and realize that no one is perfect, and that there are no white knights or princesses ready to come and save them. They should stop daydreaming, but not give up the dream itself.

There is a danger of entering the wrong type of relationship, namely a co-dependent one. Either the native or their partner may enjoy, or feel obligated to play, the role of martyr, victim, or rescuer. They should remember that unequal relationships are unhealthy; only two equal partners can create the best union.

The native is a sensitive person and enjoys the graceful, elevated, and aesthetic things in life. They want harmony and beauty, and they are probably drawn to art, painting, music, dance, theater, or drama. They are also attracted to artistic and mysterious personalities. They are endowed with a certain charm, because of which many people consider them detached from reality and earthly concerns. Unusualness, good intuition, sensitivity, and curiosity are characteristic of them. They are unreliable in matters of love. They should simply remember that they also have human weaknesses and flaws, while still trying to behave in the best possible way; this is what this aspect asks of them.

Venus in Harmony with Neptune

The native is a sensitive person with great artistic imagination and a talent for creating beautiful things. They find peace in listening to good music, and quite often it immerses them in their fantasies. They are romantic and would like to live in bliss with their one true soulmate. These are truly high ideals, but dreaming is natural for them, while at the same time they possess common sense and keep their feet firmly on the ground. They are responsive and strive to help those who need it. Giving is characteristic of them, and they enjoy being able to help someone.

It is difficult for the native to be assertive, because they love peace and harmony and do not want to create trouble. They are capable of great sacrifices for those they love, asking nothing in return. They have psychic abilities and enjoy being among artistic and mysterious personalities. They also enjoy religious music; for them, it is like a breath of fresh air from their true heavenly home. A talent for music or singing may be strongly expressed in them. They are full of determination and devotion. As a rule, they support the weak and at times love tear-jerking stories. In this life, they will attract people who help them continue the spiritual growth they began in past lives.

Inharmonious Aspects of Venus with Neptune

The native should acknowledge that human weakness is present even in those they love. At times, people cannot live up to their unrealistic expectations, because in matters of love the native is not always realistic, sincerely believing that a loving person should read their thoughts and guess all their desires. This becomes the cause of many disappointments, because it is simply not true. They need to speak about their feelings and openly state their desires. Their partner cannot read their mind, no matter how strongly that person loves and cares for them.

The native needs to transform material values into spiritual ones, and personal desires into socially meaningful ones. Personal things and possessions may leave in strange and mysterious ways in order to teach them that material goods can easily be replaced, unlike true values that really matter. The only things they can take with them when they die are their spiritual and personal growth, as well as their experience and impressions. They need to learn to love without expecting love in return, and they must also learn to forgive, thereby releasing inner resentment. They also need to learn to turn the other cheek, while not becoming weak-willed. Under no circumstances should they turn to drugs or alcohol to drown their sorrow or hide from this world; they need to perceive life as it is, with its obstacles and all kinds of events and situations. By resorting to alcohol and drugs, they will only make things worse for themselves.  ✓

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