Pluto – Lilith Square – Twilight Heroes

This is an aspect of innate vampirism, but it does not act constantly. The square is like a hammer blow at different periods of life, when the native does not understand what is happening. The more tension they act under while trying to create comfortable conditions for themselves, the stronger the external resistance of circumstances becomes. Lilith, the Black Moon, distorts the energies of the partner planet, showing in which themes negative ancestral experience has accumulated, preventing the proper expression of Plutonian potential.

Most often, the native begins to vampirize unconsciously in the area where the planet of karma is placed, but there is also a general tendency: when the person actively engages in any kind of activity and draws people into it, they download their energy. Others feel this and intuitively avoid partnership and communication, which interferes with building relationships and business.

Dangers of the Pluto – Lilith Square

Natives with squares to transpersonal planets always strive for freedom and the revelation of personal individuality. However, Plutonian energy adds to these desires the obsession of Faust, by which Mephistopheles caught him.

The native reacts extremely painfully to any encroachment on their personal time, freedom, and money. For a Plutonian person, finances equal the independence they need so much, and of course, power.

However, this is where the main problem lies. In order to become powerful and wealthy, one needs to rule and lead someone. It is impossible to create a business without people, but working under the native is also difficult. They are very demanding, draining all the strength and time of employees without remainder. While treating the issue of personal freedom for themselves with great reverence, the native limits the right to it for their workers and loved ones.

They need to control everything, poke their nose into everything, and know every secret. If something is hidden from them, they begin to suspect a conspiracy or, at the very least, a bad attitude. Yet this is precisely Lilith’s machination, turning the Plutonian desire to possess and rule into total tyranny.

If the square of the Black Moon with Pluto affects the Tenth House, or the planet of karma is conjunct the North Node, then the person sees their mission in managing masses of people and strives toward power structures. The other side of the matter is that the more shadow energy they express, the harder it becomes to achieve what they desire.

Remaining on the lower level of Lilith and Pluto, the person can reach only the level of a domestic tyrant or a boss whom everyone fears because of nitpicking and excessive demands.

Accordingly, qualities such as jealousy, envy, vindictiveness, and the moral or physical destruction of oneself and others prevent the native from becoming popular and socially strong. In essence, this is possible if they set the goal of becoming a locomotive that pulls the main load of work on itself and helps others solve their problems without resentment or calculation.

The Pluto – Lilith Square and Relationships

Pluto indirectly influences the native’s relationships with people through their desire to transform themselves and their life in all spheres. The person is very afraid of being controlled and therefore strives to dominate the partner, delve into every detail of the partner’s intentions, and monitor where they go and with whom they communicate. This is especially clearly expressed when Pluto or Lilith is in the Seventh or Fifth House.

If the Fifth House is involved, men and women with this square become strict, controlling parents. They are tormented by fears that something will happen to the child, and therefore they may unceremoniously violate boundaries and interfere in their children’s personal affairs, which does not contribute to warm, healthy relationships.

Their love life, for which the Fifth House is also responsible, is no less complicated. Because of suspiciousness and mistrust, they often do not move beyond the period of romantic dates, since a potential partner, seeing their fixation and deep fears, simply disappears. Toxic people, however, remain in their life for a long time.

Women with the Pluto – Lilith square often have problems with men who use them for their own purposes: living on their territory without investing in the relationship, or meeting them only for sex without obligations. Outwardly, these men may not look like gigolos, but for some reason they take and appropriate what comes easily to the woman through Lilith’s House.

In order to free oneself from unhealthy dependence on powerful, harsh partners, it is necessary to work on oneself together with a psychologist.

How to Work Through the Lilith – Pluto Square

Harmonizing tense aspects of the transpersonal planets is quite difficult. Here it is necessary to determine in which sphere the greatest discomfort occurs, whether personal relationships or business partnerships suffer from the square, and then correct one’s behavior:

• moderate one’s authoritarianism and not command people like soldiers on a parade ground from the position of being above them, but instead develop team cooperation;
• respect the personal boundaries of every person, even one’s own child;
• recognize the fact that nothing in the world belongs to anyone forever, treat material values more lightly, and not cling to them as a sign of high status;
• be simpler, calmer, and friendlier with others, without demanding superhuman abilities from them;
• study psychology, astrology, and metaphorical cards in order to correctly read information from the subconscious without the distortions of the Black Moon.

The native must categorically avoid black magic and, in principle, must not violate another person’s free will, because this is exactly what their ancestors sinned through. A protective stone against misfortune with the Lilith – Pluto square will be tourmaline in dark shades.  ✓