Venus – Lilith Sextile – Everyone’s Favorites

Love and passion permeate the native’s entire being, and if these two feelings are present in life, the luck of the sextile will never leave them. Venus is the planet of happiness connected with satisfying the need to love and receive mutual feeling, as well as to be financially prosperous.

Lilith adds a note of sharpness and an emphasis on the material, but thanks to the harmonious energy of the aspect, the result is a cocktail of creative fire and confidence that any activity should be well paid — one that others find quite attractive. In a male chart, the Lilith – Venus sextile is almost always a guarantee of early marriage through passionate love, while women with this aspect may sort through admirers and get so carried away with the game that they may not marry at all, especially if Saturn is in the Seventh House.

Opportunities and Problems of the Lilith – Venus Sextile

No matter how much the positive aspect tries to activate Lilith’s constructive energy, it still reflects the dark depths of the subconscious, and in this case suppressed sexuality comes to the forefront. At a low level of development, the native’s animal magnetism attracts bad company. They develop an early interest in the physical side of relationships, while emotional intelligence is almost undeveloped. These are consumers to whom everything seems to come on its own, but they do not know how to love; they only accept and demand more and more pleasure. Such an attitude toward life creates many problems, although, of course, from the outside it may seem that the native lives for themselves and knows no sorrow.

However, Lilith requires the higher energy of Venus, which is born through creativity. If this is absent, the person falls into depression: it seems they have everything, yet there is no feeling of happiness.

It is quite another matter when the native with the Venus – Lilith sextile develops creatively, sets goals, falls in love, and in the flame of this inspiration creates something beautiful. Here the energy moves upward in a spiral, and Lilith no longer drains it by demanding ever greater pleasures, but works as an eternal engine of desires that the native fulfills, receiving joy from the result of their labor.

Interestingly, natives with the Venus – Lilith sextile create their style from forbidden themes on the edge of what is acceptable, and it suits them. What looks vulgar on others appears bold and interesting on them. Such people do not worry about other people’s opinions, and if they happen to disgrace themselves, they simply wait until it is forgotten or turn the failure into a publicity move. In this respect, they are simply unsinkable.

Their value is always freedom: sexual, financial, and personal, and this is exactly what attracts the opposite sex. Any qualities of the native, physical or moral, that deviate from the norm become their calling card and an object of admiration for others.

Positive Influence of the Lilith – Venus Sextile

Natives with this aspect know how to create something new, interesting, and vivid that did not exist before, and at the same time they earn money through forbidden themes while helping other people. They may raise taboo issues in society, drawing attention to these problems. True, they will leave concrete solutions to others of a more grounded nature, while they themselves flutter like bright butterflies, place accents on painful points, and unleash a storm.

In creativity, there are no boundaries or prohibitions for them either. They are wonderful performers, and even if their main work is not connected with theater or entertainment, they still express themselves as creatively as possible, not to mention the aura of attractiveness that is felt almost on the physical plane.

Still, the Venus – Lilith sextile makes the native an object of the opposite sex’s physical passions in particular. Platonic love may arise later, but at first it is always a reaction to magnetic sex appeal. Men may quickly be married off by female classmates or fellow students, while women with this aspect may remain unmarried for a long time, enjoying the company of various admirers, or dedicate themselves to creativity.

Such people have refined artistic taste, but even while understanding the classical approach to art, they still try to look at things from a different angle, creating something strange yet captivating, even when it concerns the design of their own apartment or their manner of dress.

How to Activate the Venus – Lilith Sextile

The native’s main problem, especially if there are many trines and sextiles in the chart, is laziness. However, luck and fortunate opportunities will be present in their life if they engage in Venusian creativity. This includes not only dance, design, acting on stage, creating jewelry, opening spa salons, or sewing beautiful clothes, because the person may also pursue any hobby that inspires them and brings joy, thereby activating the energy of the sextile.

The main condition is obtaining a beautiful result that brings happiness, whether it is a painting, a dress, or a consultation on relationship matters. Even in trade, the native needs to show creativity and create as much beauty around themselves as possible.

An important condition for success will be the development of a sense of proportion, so as not to fall into artistic extremism or end up in an awkward situation through excessive jewelry or an overly sexual image.

Many natives with the Venus – Lilith sextile believe they are perfection itself and that everyone should fall at their feet before their attractiveness. However, when faced with rejection, they may fall into depression because they are used to getting everything at the snap of their fingers, or they may even begin to take revenge. This is a road to nowhere, as the example of Princess Diana proves. It is much better to concentrate on their strengths and move toward new relationships. For this, the person needs to work through the tendency toward codependency, the victim syndrome, and egoism hidden in Lilith’s shadow, and give pure love to the world.  ✓