Venus – Lilith Square – Criminal Passions

A tense aspect with the Black Moon, or Lilith, interferes with the proper expression of another planet’s energies. Venus is responsible for the sense of beauty, style, sensuality, awareness of feminine energy, and the system of material values. All of this becomes distorted: it may seem sinful and forbidden, or, on the contrary, so enticing that the person sees nothing beyond physical pleasures and material accumulation and does not want to develop further.

Lilith is the karma of the family line accumulated over centuries and inherited by the native. Everything connected with it seems like forbidden fruit, especially in combination with Venus. Romance and love affairs become a separate branch of the native’s temptations, where passion is either suppressed at the root and the partner is brought under control, or the person plunges into every excess. Much depends on the sign and House of Lilith in the individual chart.

Dangers of the Lilith – Venus Square

This aspect makes the chart holder afraid of intimacy. Women deliberately emphasize external sexuality, while men position themselves as collectors of hearts, stressing that they are not made for family traditions. Such people are very difficult to lead to the altar. They constantly start romances, replacing quality with quantity. At the same time, the sincere desire of a person in love to become emotionally close frightens them, while various kinds of sexual experimentation do not frighten them at all.

With the Lilith – Venus square, there are two possible scenarios:

1. the native plunges into every excess, recognizes the attraction of criminal passions within themselves, understands it, and enjoys it fully;
2. the person feels ashamed and uncomfortable about fantasies that seem to arise from nowhere, is afraid to share them with anyone, and suppresses them or prays them away.

Women with this aspect are potential witches and fatal beauties, and even if their appearance is far from classical standards, they attract a sea of admirers. They do not even need to make an effort to charm anyone. Women with this square may behave however they please, and given the inner tension and the need to release boiling passions so as not to burn from within, such women really do act erratically and illogically.

Men with the Venus – Lilith square are also magnetically attractive to the opposite sex, and if the planet of love is in earth signs, they may treat women in a consumer-like way.

The main problem of the aspect is the question of power specifically in relationships. It is important for the native to dominate the partner, because Lilith activates in Venus a burning desire to fully possess the object of passion. Such people find it very difficult to understand the higher idea of love because they are fixated on the sensual nature of relationships. Sometimes it seems to them that others are interested only in their body and the physical pleasures they can provide, not in their soul, dreams, and thoughts. This is a very painful discovery. Even if they themselves advocate free relationships, the partner must remain faithful and stay close.

Sometimes it really happens that the native’s human qualities do not arouse interest or are devalued. Such an imbalance hits self-esteem hard, but for harmonization, it is necessary to set priorities correctly within oneself.

The Venus – Lilith Square and Relationships

Of course, first of all, this aspect affects the issue of love relationships with a sexual undertone. The native is capable of a high and elevated feeling, but it is also difficult for them to live without the sensual and licentious part of the self. If a woman falls in love with a man who has the Venus – Lilith square, she should come to terms with his potential infidelities, because one partner is not enough for him, no matter how wonderful she may be. A good example here is the personal life of A. S. Pushkin, who had this aspect and was tossed from the wondrous moments of exalted Venus to the sensuality of Lilith.

The second interesting point is the appearance of a significant partner whose needs the native has to take into account. If one analyzes the life circumstances of people with the Venus – Lilith square, it can be noticed that they often have to care intensively for, or rescue, their wives and husbands. The partners are either ill, in difficult circumstances, or their problems are so great that collapse is inevitable without the native’s intervention. On the other hand, this is exactly how the chart holder can free themselves from the fear that they are merely physically attractive but not spiritually significant, and come to understand that love is not only sex. Similar circumstances were present in the lives of Y. Andropov, George Sand, Clark Gable, A. Pushkin, V. Smekhov, and Y. Nagibin.

How to Work Through the Venus – Lilith Square

This aspect truly gives incredible attractiveness and charisma. It is a claim to popularity, and it is no coincidence that many celebrities owe part of the public’s love precisely to the Venus – Lilith square: Vera Kholodnaya, Mireille Mathieu, and Leonardo DiCaprio are known throughout the world. However, they too had to work thoroughly through issues of self-esteem and self-confidence. As soon as they got rid of complexes, circumstances began to unfold for their benefit.

Of course, acceptance of oneself and one’s nature is necessary for talented performers, but representatives of other professions also need to find their unique style. Thanks to the powerful charisma of the Lilith – Venus square, the person can succeed in any field, and this energy also attracts money. The main thing is to develop spiritually, while not condemning oneself for heightened libido, and to strive to keep these forces in harmony.

A good talisman for the Venus – Lilith square will be white opal.  ✓