The tension created by the square from the planet to the Meridian of the Midheaven in the 10th house introduces mental confusion and an unkind wind of change shuffles the circumstances around important issues for the native like a deck of cards. Venus is a symbol of wealth, erotic and material pleasures, the manifestation of the nature of one’s gender in relationships, oppressed by constant stress and the need to choose between a profession and the joy of creativity.
It is difficult for a person with the Venus-MS square to love himself as a unique person. Self-expression in the profession occurs only if he receives loving support from the outside, otherwise talents may not be revealed. The dependence on the sympathy and disposition of others is so great that it prompts us to abandon important things, principles and beliefs, which is fatal later.
Dangers of Venus – MC square
Men and women with this aspect want everyone to love them, but it is impossible to please everyone. They are kind-hearted and talented, but they easily believe a bad word about themselves, without delving into the personal intentions of the critics, who sometimes turn out to be ordinary envious people.
The fear of not liking pushes them to flattery and curry favor with those in power, starting with teachers at the university and ending with the bosses. They strive to please everyone in the team, not realizing that they are losing the main fulcrum through which the Venus – Midheaven square is being worked out: sincerity and self-respect.
Despite good intentions and really good deeds, others feel that this does not come from the heart, but by calculation: help in exchange for a good attitude. This annoys colleagues, and the bosses do not particularly value the native as a person. Other important shades of the influence of the Venus square – MC:
- lack of measure in the personal style of clothing and the interior of the workplace: too strong emphasis on sexual qualities instead of business, or vice versa, a person without gender and image, an impeccable screw of the system;
- the habit of giving more than receiving in return;
- the degree of disharmony in love, finances and career is fully proportional to the level of love and care received in childhood: if the native grew up in a happy family, he has earned significant immunity from the problems of the square;
- difficulties in finding a unique creative direction: a person perfectly copies other people’s work, but does not know how to detach from the achievements of other people and create something new;
- with additional negative aspects associated with 1 house, flaws in appearance, extremely low self-esteem, psychological trauma are likely, due to which the owner of the horoscope does not consider himself entitled to shine in the profession and chooses a place in the shade.
Aspect owners, finding themselves in problem situations, often attract sympathetic benefactors who want to help them. In return, they pay with their sympathy and participation. Such a relationship delays and contributes to the habit of a parasitic lifestyle and a decrease in the creative fuse inherent in the square of Venus.
Men and women with this aspect often face a lack of interest in themselves from the opposite sex. They have no karmic experience in personal relationships, and they get it by getting bumps from time to time. They strive to please, emphasizing personal sexuality is absolutely out of place, obviously flirting with a university teacher or trying to seduce the boss with ambiguous signs of attention, chase the person they like, wanting to be needed at any moment, or wave at themselves and stop following their appearance, believing that everyone no one will love it anyway.
It is especially difficult for women in this regard. They are overly dependent on the approval and words of support from a man, be it a loved one or a boss, and if he is dissatisfied for some reason, the world collapses. The girl is ready for anything to regain her disposition and former harmony, becoming dependent on a clever abuser.
In men, the Venus – MC square is played out in the complexity of combining work and family, as well as the sad consequences of carelessness in personal life. Both genders love to decorate their workplace with luxury items, which annoy colleagues or are sometimes just inappropriate for office style.
Elaboration of the Venus square – MC
The aspect gives a person a subtle artistic taste in everything except the art of dressing and furnishing the house. However, in these matters, too, the native will succeed over time if he wishes to learn. It is important to develop your own style, without regard to the opinions of others. Regardless of the type of activity, the stock of courage and self-confidence will be added by dancing, acting and oratory, music and singing, if Venus is in Taurus and Pisces.
It is better to work in the fields of beauty and health, personnel management, recruiting, wedding, travel agencies and be sure to engage in creativity for the soul: read poetry in public or sing, embroider, draw, do interior design and clothing.
Astrologers recommend that people with the Venus-MS square visit a psychologist regularly and take consultations with a stylist in order to find their own style and get rid of children’s complexes. In dealing with the authorities, you cannot be led by emotions. First, you need to consider the consequences and only then make a decision.
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