Chiron – Lilith Square – The Black Hole of the Subconscious 

The Black Moon is a hypothetical point, and Chiron is an asteroid, not a planet, but they are capable of creating colossal tension through their karmic influence. If Lilith points to the concentration of the main transgressions of the family line, then Chiron is the main vulnerability of the horoscope, the place where the person feels incompetent and insecure, even when there is no reason for it.

The conflict between dark desires and vulnerability in the sphere of their practical embodiment either completely blocks possible development, because the person is too afraid of getting salt in the wound symbolized by Chiron, or makes the person grab at something they have not yet grown into, trying to prove that they are a master of their craft, only to receive another emotional wound.

Dangers of the Chiron – Lilith Square

The Black Moon is a point that marks the farthest area of the lunar orbit. It is connected with the dark, closed part of the subconscious, where information is stored about dishonorable violations and even crimes in the native’s family line. Chiron symbolizes deep wounds that cannot be healed, which is also connected with events of the past.

For example, if women in several generations were widowed early, a woman with the Lilith – Chiron square may have a fear of marriage and close relationships, even if she never knew these stories.

Such dependence arises when the family line did not mourn, did not live through its emotions, and they settled in the shared genetic memory. Depending on Chiron’s placement in one House or another, it is possible to understand in which sphere the person has the greatest vulnerability: money or work, fear of poverty or dismissal, relationships, or the birth of children.

Sometimes even pregnancy may not occur because of a deep fear of losing a child, if crimes against children were committed in the native’s family line, or if women lost babies because of epidemics or poverty. These states can be worked through by studying family archives, living through the ancestors’ emotions, becoming aware of them, and separating from them.

The Chiron – Lilith square can give the world an excellent psychologist, cosmetologist, and doctor, including in the fields of alternative medicine, physiotherapy, and spa procedures. However, very often the native’s great ambitions come into conflict with their life philosophy. It seems wrong to them to achieve success, thereby provoking envy and negative emotions in other people. This greatly slows the development of innate talents. At the same time, inner tension and the desire to save the world do not disappear, creating psychosomatic illnesses of the nervous system, and in women, also gynecological disorders.

Natives with the Lilith – Chiron square are very vulnerable in the sphere of their phobias and fears, and if these exist in the sphere of social realization, they cannot do without the help of a psychologist.

The Lilith – Chiron Square and Relationships

If the aspect affects the First, Fifth, and Seventh Houses, then the source of pain and the person’s weak spot becomes personal life, and later relationships with children. The placement of Lilith and Chiron in one of these sectors means that the problem has long roots connected with a family history of betrayals, infidelity, and double standards specifically in the area of partnership. The native’s ancestors faced these difficulties; perhaps the native themselves suffered in a past life or made others suffer, and therefore now encounters the following problems:

• the partner turns out not to be who they seem and hides a stone behind their back;
• the native themselves leaves many things unsaid and plays a double game, which provokes resentment and quarrels;
• the chart holder dates several people at the same time, or ends up in a situation where the partner has many romantic connections;
• the person has to hide the existence of children, or it turns out that the person they like has another family;
• it does not work out to create strong relationships; the native constantly meets people from whom they have to hide a great deal in order not to lose them.

All of the above also applies to business partnerships, even if other Houses are involved, for example, the Second, Sixth, Eighth, or Tenth. In that case, duality and things left unsaid will concern financial matters. The native may discover that they are paid less than others, even though this is unfair because they deserve more, or that someone else is being hired for their position and no one told them about it in advance.

How to Work Through the Lilith – Chiron Square

Recognizing wounds connected with the past and emotional traumas from childhood will help the person become a healer and psychologist. The problem is that they are afraid to do this, because they will have to dive into what they fear most, work through the root causes of the pain, and this is far from pleasant.

An inner conflict arises: in order to satisfy ambitions, the native needs to overcome the painfulness of the deep wound in the sphere where Chiron is placed, for example, the fear of possessing money when it is in the Second House, being responsible for other people’s finances in the Eighth House, or being a reliable partner and trusting another person in the Seventh House.

The second enemy of the native with the Chiron – Lilith square is talkativeness. It is better to keep silent about plans, otherwise there is a high probability of draining all the resources needed to carry them out. Since it is difficult for the native to keep everything inside, it is good to keep a diary and write down goals and experiences there.

Sometimes suppressed emotions and fears simply block the person’s true desires, and before they can reach their purpose, they will have to clear their inner world. A good psychologist will help here.

The talisman stone for the Chiron – Lilith square is green aventurine.  ✓