Saturn square Lilith: in search of the true self

Both participants of the aspect are connected with karma, which means that the war between them gives rise to a serious struggle in the soul of the native and creates unpleasant events related to self-realization, self-determination and a system of rules for survival in a cruel world. This is exactly how a person sees him with the square of Saturn , a symbol of limitations and karmic lessons, and the Black Moon , which distorts the principles of the planet of order and discipline.

The native perceives the Saturnian principles inadequately, cannot find the golden mean between measure and asceticism. He goes to extremes, violates agreements, relieves himself of responsibility, or vice versa – becomes the guardian of order, a stern inquisitor, condemning the slightest mistakes.

Dangers of the square Saturn – Lilith

These people really need stability. But the Black Moon creates the illusion of falling down a rabbit hole, literally knocking the ground out from under your feet. A person cannot cope with the burden of responsibility and begins to ignore requests, obligations and his own plans: he puts them off until the last moment, then rushes around in a hard rush and realizes that he does not have time. This is fraught with disappointment in one’s abilities, loss of trust of relatives, colleagues, management, a feeling that time lives its own life, which is impossible to keep up with.

The second option is a wild fear of not being able to cope and not being able to do it in time, which is why the native begins to limit himself in advance in any pleasures and rest in order to finish all the affairs and projects by the deadline. The result is emotional burnout and wild fatigue.

Men and women with the Saturn-Lilith square often take on a lot of responsibilities in order to curry favor and earn admiration. They love to hear that they’re doing the impossible, but when you’ve got a bunch of things to do, you’ll find yourself literally buried under them.

Characteristic features of a native with this aspect:

• problems with boundaries, the desire to stand out from the crowd at all costs, to emphasize one’s individuality, elevation above others (if fire signs are affected), or vice versa – dissolution in the collectively unconscious, fear of separation, the feeling that without a common “body” you nobody (water signs, Aquarius or 11th house);
• inability to cope with other people’s orders, expectations or assignments due to the inability to plan, lead or obey;
• unrealistic pride, vanity, which is suppressed as a bad feeling, and contributes to psychosomatics: in public speaking, the voice breaks, hands shake, the person blushes, is embarrassed, and because of this he cannot work normally;
• a constant sense of shame about the topics of the house where Lilith stands, even if the native has no direct relation to them;
• the habit of limiting yourself to your own ideas about the end result, so sometimes it’s easier to do nothing to avoid disappointment.

The worst thing is that a person with such an aspect is afraid to admit the existence of these problems, and even more so, to seek help from a psychologist.

Saturn square Lilith and relationships

Any tense Saturnian aspects create problems in relationships, although the planet itself is social, and is directly related to the manifestation of a person in society through hard work, responsibility and honesty.

However, Lilith distorts these principles with a deep self-doubt and her right to succeed. Sometimes the feeling of exaggerated insignificance is replaced by a defensive reaction: am I a trembling creature or do I have the right? Approximately such a struggle took place in the soul of Raskolnikov when he went to kill the old pawnbroker, and this is the work of the Black Moon. It inspires the native with painful experiences and thoughts: why others succeed easily and without problems, and I have to work hard and count pennies.

Sometimes such envy becomes a powerful engine of internal growth. A person wants to succeed so much and is so afraid of being overtaken that he himself does not notice how he breaks out to the finish line in record time.

If spiritual development leaves much to be desired, the owner of the aspect only sighs enviously, watching other people’s successes in social networks, and he himself does not leave a very narrow comfort zone.

If Saturn or Lilith affect the 1st, 5th, 7th houses, then the native himself limits communication with the opposite sex, is ashamed of the pleasure received from communication, sex, a fortunate combination of circumstances. All this seems sinful and wrong.

How to work out the square Saturn – Lilith

Only conscious people can harmonize this kind of tension, because first of all it is necessary to recognize the existence of a problem, and then make the dark unconscious work for itself. For example, envy is the engine to success, inadequate shyness is a reason to go into fear and defeat it: perform on stage, undergo therapy with a psychologist, and even post your gorgeous photo shoot on social networks. This is already a work in progress.

Sometimes it seems to the native that no one can understand him, and it is unrealistic to express his feelings. Keeping a diary will help here, splashing out your feelings in creativity, even if it is anonymous. You can run your blog or Youtube channel under a pseudonym to gain basic self-confidence.

A person with a Lilith-Saturn square often becomes a hostage to the traditions of his country. What he wants, somehow turns out to be strange for others. Here it is very important to listen to your inner voice and look for the golden mean in self-expression.

Talisman stone for aspect harmonization – black onyx .