Moon – Lilith Opposition – It All Comes Down to the Mother

A person with constant tension between the Moon and Lilith is not to be envied, because the opposition, unlike the square, acts constantly, which means there can be no peace in the soul. The Moon is not only emotions, but also basic comfort, the way a person relaxes and feels in harmony with the world. Lilith, the Black Moon, is a pain point of the subconscious where the secrets of the past are stored. It distorts, provokes, and vampirizes the negative emotions that come from the dark side of the planet.

In the case of the Moon, these are, of course, fears. In the native’s soul, there is a real vortex of unbearable emotions connected with the image of the mother. The relationship with her is quite painful for the holder of the aspect. This distorted image, which evokes anxiety and the pain of loss, is transferred by men onto the wife, while women project it onto their own role as mother and wife.

Dangers of the Moon – Lilith Opposition

The native may indeed have a poor relationship with the mother if she is a person with all kinds of addictions and oddities, which is not uncommon with an opposition to the Black Moon.

Moreover, a female native may inherit distorted ancestral programs of reality perception from the mother, when an imaginary image of the enemy is chosen: “all men cheat” or “women in this family line were widowed early.” This attitude is difficult to uproot from the subconscious, although reality depends only on the person themselves.

Thus, it is clear that Lilith itself is only a reflection of an ancestral program, not fate. However, if women in the native’s family really did commit crimes, and problems in the realization of the role of mother and wife come from this point, one may speak of karmic retribution, though this is rare.

A person with this aspect often acts illogically and causes pain to others, which makes them suffer as well, either tormented by pangs of conscience or losing friends and loved ones because of misunderstanding. In the most difficult case, the person becomes an outcast and leaves the family.

Positive Influence of the Moon – Lilith Opposition

At a high level of mental and spiritual development, the person has mediumistic abilities and easily reads the feelings and thoughts of others, especially negative ones. They know how to stop in time and not allow matters to reach the point of wrongdoing.

Women with the Moon – Lilith opposition are generously gifted creatively, very sensual, able to play any role, and able to understand another person from half a word.

Men also possess sensitivity, vivid imagination, and a good understanding of women, which makes them both good psychologists and wonderful husbands, capable of understanding even certain improper actions and helping find a solution.

There is also a desire here to be good parents, different from their own, and to give a child a real family.

The Moon – Lilith Opposition and Relationships

Personal life is extremely important for the chart holder, but this is exactly where the main problem lies.

If the holder of the Moon – Lilith opposition lost the mother early, which requires at least three additional indications from other aspects to confirm, then the fear of loss will follow them throughout life. A man fears being left alone without his beloved, while a woman fears her own death, especially after becoming a mother, so as not to leave her children orphaned. Sometimes this fear is so strong that it blocks the very ability to give birth, although physically the woman may be completely healthy.

If the mother suffered in relationships, the daughter unconsciously fears close relationships with men. The danger of this influence is that the woman herself does not see this pattern. Moreover, on the level of events, she may passionately want children and marriage, but nothing works out.

A similar situation may also occur in a man. He subconsciously seeks the ideal image of the mother in his beloved, but it seems as if everyone around him is a stranger. If he does find such a woman, she will twist him around as she pleases, because he is terrified of being left without mother again. Such men often have to choose between a wife and a mistress, especially if Venus is conjunct Lilith. If the Sun merges with Lilith, then a woman with this opposition will always compete and fight with her husband, like her mother did, or strive to become exactly like her in relationships.

The main danger here is the tendency to fall in love with codependent partners, alcoholics, drug addicts, or abusers.

How to Work Through the Moon – Lilith Opposition

This aspect creates a fear of leaving the comfort zone and aggression toward circumstances and people who try to disturb an imagined or hard-won peace.

If the person studies psychology and works through the relationship with the mother and with their own feminine principle, which exists in men as well, following the advice of well-known specialists, they can reach the level of a psychic who has not only understood, forgiven, and thereby healed the mother and the relationship with her, but also helps others do the same.

The key to liberation from fears and even phobias lies in the person’s early childhood and, of course, in the mother. By working with this theme, it becomes easier to gain confidence and calmness. The less toxic the relationship with the parents, the lighter the karma. It is very important to accept the inner child, and through this, get rid of irritation toward other children. Various meditations will help, as will attending celebrations and participating in theatrical children’s matinees.

Pregnancy problems in women also need to be worked through, starting with childhood and emotional wounds connected with the mother, removing resentment toward her. Spending time near water and swimming have a very beneficial effect on the nervous system.

The best talisman for harmonizing this aspect is moonstone, provided that it is natural.  ✓