Venus – Lilith Conjunction – Am I the Fairest of Them All?

The Black Moon is considered a hypothetical point rather than a planet, so in aspects it distorts the energies of the other participant in the union, forcing it to manifest differently from its natural expression.

From the psychological point of view, Lilith illuminates all the dark and secret corners of the subconscious, and in a close conjunction with a planet, the person expresses secret, distorted, and hidden desires through the planet involved in the aspect.

Venus is responsible not only for aesthetics, beauty, and romantic relationships, but also for the native’s values. At a high level of development, such a person is incredibly sexually attractive and full of creative energy, but most often they are magnetically drawn to the dark side of bodily pleasures: promiscuous intimate relationships, obsession with appearance, money, and luxury. The person needs everything in their life to be better than it is for others.

Features of the Lilith – Venus Conjunction

The native’s behavioral strategy resembles Pushkin’s queen from the fairy tale about the seven knights, who asked the mirror: “Am I the fairest of them all?” No matter how spiritually developed the native may be, being more beautiful and more successful than everyone else is extremely important for both women and men.

At a high level of awareness, the person simply accepts competition as a game, while at a low level of development, a burning desire appears to destroy rivals and shine alone.

If Venus conjunct Lilith is in earth signs, the native will go to great lengths to reach a high level of prosperity. They want to wear only expensive designer items, live in a prestigious area, and show off the latest iPhone model.

If the aspect affects the First or Seventh House, this is joined by a desire to be with an ideal, star-like partner whose appearance makes everyone freeze in admiration.

The inflated expectations of the native with the Lilith – Venus conjunction in finances and romantic relationships, on the one hand, motivate self-improvement and the achievement of goals. On the other hand, there is a concentration on external qualities at the expense of inner ones. For example, this may be a marriage of convenience with someone outwardly beautiful but spiritually alien, or work in a prestigious company with a high salary, but not according to one’s true calling.

Sometimes Lilith pushes the native toward ugly actions in order to obtain what they desire: seducing and taking someone else’s girlfriend or boyfriend, setting up a colleague at work in order to get their position, or borrowing a large sum of money and not returning it. Creative people with this aspect can be especially cunning, because they see their creations as an extension of themselves and are ready to do anything for fame.

In relationships, natives with the Lilith – Venus conjunction are always looking for thrills, drama, and certain distortions, when they enjoy submitting to any whims of the partner or, conversely, dominating the partner to the point of cruelty. Ordinary, calm relationships seem boring to them, and they run from reliable and faithful companions without looking back.

Positive Influence of the Venus – Lilith Conjunction

This is the aspect of an artistic person with a subtle aesthetic sense. Lilith sharpens the creative view of the world and activates an unusual angle of inner vision. The native is not afraid to look into the very depths of darkness, where the roots of creative movements begin, so what they create often has unusual forms and original content.

With this aspect, it is easy to succeed in design, creating unique jewelry and accessories, because Venus loves bright details and accents. Success is also possible in business through the creation of a unique and unmistakable personal brand.

The native with the Lilith – Venus conjunction easily attracts money. They simply have an instinct for what the public wants and know how to satisfy this demand.

In addition, the aspect gives incredible charm and sexual attractiveness.

Harmonizing the Lilith – Venus Conjunction

People under this aspect are distinguished either by a lack of personal boundaries or by an inability to protect their own inviolability under the pressure of arrogance and deceit. They can be easily seduced or even drawn into drug use if the chart contains an afflicted Neptune and a weak Mars.

The most important thing for the native is to find inner support within themselves and define personal boundaries of what is acceptable, so as not to become a victim of their own distorted ideas about love. Sometimes breaking social conventions is even necessary, but only when it concerns creativity. In personal relationships, the person needs to define their own scale of values and follow it. The image of a femme fatale or fatal man attracts many admirers to the native. Few can resist the temptation to date several partners at the same time, which is why natives with the Lilith – Venus conjunction often become patients of venereologists, as well as neurologists because of their addiction to emotional swings in relationships.

The distortions of this conjunction are advised to be worked through on an everyday level: the person should buy some beautiful object, preferably a piece of jewelry, a lamp, or an accessory with a defect, and repair it themselves. If this is done regularly — and even better, if the native creates something new and beautiful from recycled materials by resewing or remaking old things — it becomes much easier to manage the energies of Lilith and Venus.

The native’s salvation also lies in creativity of any kind, as long as it makes the soul sing.  ✓