Lilith (Black Moon) in the 7th house

The mysterious and merciless karmic point of Lilith in the 7th house distorts the idea of ​​marriage and obscures the eyes with a veil of fog regarding the future husband or wife. It is enough for the owners of such Black Moon to live comfortably. They subconsciously feel a heap of painful emotions – jealousy, conflicts, dependence on a partner, and avoids matrimonial ties. Love catches by surprise and often towards a strange and mysterious stranger, with physical disabilities or a dark criminal background. Passion overwhelms their heads and these owners of Lilith in the 7th house are unable to resist it, despite any dangers and problems.

The insidious Black Moon distorts the idea of ​​the subject of sympathy. A good and kind native suspects of treason and betrayal, and raises the vile and deceitful to a pedestal of purity, cruelly deceiving in both cases. A similar state overtakes the carrier of Lilith in the 7th house and in matters of business partnership. Overcoming this kind of temptation is difficult, since it requires the ability to love unselfishly and not be deceived at the expense of other people.

Features of the relationship

The planets in the 7th sector of the horoscope affect not only family ties, but also business relationships, lawsuits and sports. The owners of Lilith or their close relatives must constantly check for the reliability of the people for whom these natives have warm feelings.

It is best to test their parents, free from the illusions of the Black Moon, because these people themselves are simply unable to see the obvious inadequacy or strange behavior of the partner. They are fascinated and bewitched by the uniqueness of the beloved, his or her dissimilarity from ordinary and gray acquaintances.

A marriage union with a disabled person who requires maximum dedication and refusal of a promising job or rehabilitation of a drug addict at home is the norm for a carrier of Lilith in the 7th house.

Over time, provocative relationships with society become familiar:

• increased tolerance for human sins and vices;
• insidious, with mental disabilities, enemies and opponents;
• with a rich aspect of 7 and 12 houses – a lifeguard syndrome: they are unable to fall in love with a self-sufficient person, feelings flare up only for the unfortunate and sick;
• the strongest jealousy and self-delusion – “what is wrong with me” if the partner has other activities;
• men are drawn to eccentric bitches, from whom they humbly endure treason and betrayal;
• women change their character and manner of behavior, reflecting the inadequacy of their partner (drink too much, start smoking, use foul language).

When working on the Black Moon, a gift appears to see through a spouse or business partner, playfully destroy the intrigues of enemies.

The influence of the zodiac sign

As a marriage partners, such natives almost always get people with qualities that they have previously categorically denied. However, relatives will assure that they dreamed all their lives of just such a companion – tough, strong-willed, extraordinary, not noticing the obvious cruelty, rudeness and stupidity. Depending on the sign where Lilith is located in the 7th house, a certain “sticking” point is triggered, which can be ignored only knowing about the trap in advance:

1. Aries, Leo, Sagittarius – married to enemies, over time using moral or physical violence and restraint, but the fight against them excites. Intolerance and disputes, conflicts and sparks from the eyes. These partners are arrogant and selfish, demand worship of their beliefs, humiliating such natives. It is necessary to develop self-esteem, believe in the value of the inner self and resist the tyrant, without harming oneself or him.

2. Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn – the danger of contacting a financially secure, but heartless companions, who consider themselves the owners of the purchased slave. The golden cage can also be organized by the native, requiring submission and full return for gifts and benefits. One of the participants is petty and picky, despite the wealth. Dirty thoughts and perversions or reproaches about poor housekeeping. Such people need to stop treating their partners as  things, develop emotional warmth.

3. Gemini, Libra, Aquarius – constant doubts in the beloved, lies and betrayals on his or her side. Others gossip and inform about the unseemly actions of the partner. Dissatisfaction with even good and warm relationships – “what if there’s even better somewhere?”, The search for a new companion or unofficial polygamy, breaking into several ties at the same time. They need to be faithful and trust their own intuition, not false information.

4. Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces – the choice of a partner with nationality, religion, relatives or appearance unacceptable for the native’s family. Enjoy the provocation of others. Fatal passion with complete self-sacrifice, energy donation for a “vampire” or binding through a spell. Such individuals are drawn to physical or moral monsters, criminals, alcoholics. Danger of physical destruction by rupture. A compromise must be found without threats and blackmail.

Important aspects

The fatal influence of Lilith in the 7th house is able to soften the harmonious aspects with Venus and the Moon, awakening the desire to love and understand a partner, and with Mercury, which gives a sharp mind that does not allow one to fall into the trap of dark passions. The state of mind worsens tense aspects with Pluto and Mars, forming dependence on falling in love with criminal elements and affecting the natives themselves when they begin to imitate the subject of passion. Opposition with Neptune threatens to meet an alcoholic or drug addict, and sextile – with a creative representative of bohemia.